there isnt really anything to celebrate here. zombie has been fucking my husband for some time and that doesnt speak well of the quality of your so-called relationship or her character. i wouldnt come on lj and celebrate 20 years of that kind of thing. oh unless its polyfuckery appreciation day
now she contributed to my divorce, you should be SO PROUD OF HER
a) I'm perversely gratified that you would bother to stalk my infrequently-updated lj.
b) Although if you're just going to abuse me and my friends, I'll ban you, and block anonymous posting. Seriously not cool.
c) In all seriousness, one thing I've learned over the years is that every relationship is different, and every relationship follows its own trajectory. Your relationship was over before Zombie ever came on the scene, and I think it's time you faced up to that. It's not about her, or Retard, or anyone but you and Pywaket, and you were just wrong for each other.
Zombie may have put words and actions to the notion that it's not supposed to suck, and if it sucks, you're doing it wrong. But he had already taken steps to extricate himself from the suckitude. His faults do not include stupidity or lack of self-awareness, or even a complete lack of initiative.
It's over. Move on. Nothing to see here, just ordinary people doing ordinary things.
i think you meant waket in the second-to-last paragraph.
i also think it's minimally likely this is turtle. matthew rosen seems much more probable. but, eh, the anonymous are all kinda bottom-of-the-barrel anyway.
"it's not supposed to suck" is one of the best things i ever learned from you. thanks and again.
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Date: 2009-12-09 10:07 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2009-12-09 11:15 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-12-09 11:26 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-12-09 01:50 pm (UTC)now she contributed to my divorce, you should be SO PROUD OF HER
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Date: 2009-12-09 05:50 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-12-10 05:34 am (UTC)b) Although if you're just going to abuse me and my friends, I'll ban you, and block anonymous posting. Seriously not cool.
c) In all seriousness, one thing I've learned over the years is that every relationship is different, and every relationship follows its own trajectory. Your relationship was over before Zombie ever came on the scene, and I think it's time you faced up to that. It's not about her, or Retard, or anyone but you and Pywaket, and you were just wrong for each other.
Zombie may have put words and actions to the notion that it's not supposed to suck, and if it sucks, you're doing it wrong. But he had already taken steps to extricate himself from the suckitude. His faults do not include stupidity or lack of self-awareness, or even a complete lack of initiative.
It's over. Move on. Nothing to see here, just ordinary people doing ordinary things.
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Date: 2009-12-10 11:20 am (UTC)i also think it's minimally likely this is turtle. matthew rosen seems much more probable. but, eh, the anonymous are all kinda bottom-of-the-barrel anyway.
"it's not supposed to suck" is one of the best things i ever learned from you. thanks and again.
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Date: 2009-12-09 02:45 pm (UTC)As said to lyonesse...
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